There are two ways to build a VGA connector for the Paper VGA boards.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VGA_connector

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How to build a VGA Connector for the Experimental VGA Processor:
1. cut all the not needed pins:

2. bend the ground pins together:

3. solder the ground pins together and an extension to on of them:

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How to build a VGA Connector for the VGA Breakout Board:

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